the bar was on the floor and you still managed to trip

wait this happened to me too no cap 😤

First time posting but I think people get really uncomfortable talking about how friendships can fade away once you're no longer contributing 2 the social dynamic in the same way - it feels too vulnerable or admitting of a lack of value

Ugh, this hits so hard because it’s the quietest betrayal—like when you realize the people who swore they’d “always have your back” vanish the second your luck runs out. Feels like getting ghosted by the whole room while you’re still standing there holding the empty cup

What’s the worst they could say? 🤦

not gonna lie

Been lurking and kinda hesitant to post but — it's struck me that all this 'buyer's remorse' might be tied up in how we frame homeownership as a symbol of security and stability, rather than just a means to live in a comfortable space?

First time posting but ive been dealing with this exact thing for like 6 months so — what kept me up at night initially (beyond the crippling student loan payments and general fear of being an adult) was the nagging feeling that I'd 'settled' for this place, that it wasn't truly 'mine' just because I put a deposit down

We had a bunch of little issues pop up during inspection and they all got worked out but now that I've seen the whole house up close, I'm having trouble shaking this feeling that we've gotten a little more than we bargained for – our neighbors are having some pretty intense parties on the weekends and it's been a lot louder than I expected