ok fair

we really out here pretending this is groundbreaking

i feel you lol, i was living literally from thrift store to thrift store for the first year of my apartment, it was wild ngl, i thought i was gonna have to get creative with a bunch of second-hand ikea furniture, but it turned out okay, ppl always wanna give up their stuff for free on craigslist, i got this sick antique dresser from a girl who was moving out of her apt, now it's actually my fave piece of furniture, so yeah, furnishing with nothing is def doable!

Lol, my first place? milk crates, baby!

Ugh, $400 off your monthly spending and you’re still whining? Try cutting $800 by canceling the gym membership you never use and cooking the pasta you already buy.

I've been following some of the court cases and it seems LIKE DHS is getting pretty lenient treatment, especially with regards to their immigration policies. Are you suggesting that the courts are going easier on DHS because of their argument that it's all about national security or is something else at play?

Because getting sued for torturing migrants at CBP is basically a slap on the wrist.

i'm so fed up with this administration being let off the hook time and time again. It feels like no matter how many times they're caught stepping over the line, the courts always manage to sweep it under the rug - it's infuriating to watch from the outside.

we really out here pretending this is groundbreaking

imagine thinking this

I've watched so many of my college roommates drift apart as we pursued different careers and lifestyles. It's as if we grew up in isolation, still stuck in the past.

this really resonates with me, and I've been thinking about this a lot lately since it's been happening in my own life. I've lost touch with some of my closest college friends, and it's felt like an unspoken understanding - like we're both trying to figure out who we're supposed to be at this age, but it's hard to keep up with each other. What did you find was the moment when it all started to shift for you, and were there any specific conversations or events that stood out as turning points? *(edited)*

I've been noticing this trend recently too, but what really caught my attention was when three close friends from college drifted apart after our twenties, and now only make time for reunions when we're all in our thirties or going through significant life changes. It feels like our shared yout..

I've noticed that my own friend group is shifting from all-nighters and spontaneous weekend trips to more scheduled and family-oriented hangouts, which is weird because I still feel like we're "supposed" to be in that wild twenties phase forever. Lately, I've found myself feeling more like an aunt at our gatherings than the crazy college kid I used to be. *(edited)*

I've definitely noticed this shift too, especially when ppl start getting more serious about their relationships. I think it's interesting when you mentioned friendships becoming more superficial, because I've seen it happen when ppl start investing emotionally in romantic relationships - it's like they don't have the BANDWIDTH 2 nurture their friendships the same way anymore.